Becoming Her: The Mama Chronicles

Episode 1: Rome Wasn’t Built in a Day

I’ve been journaling for quite some time now, and I think it’s finally time to share some of it with the world.

The last few months have been incredibly intense — energetically, emotionally, physically, mentally and financially. In every possible way, really. I’ve always believed that God only sends challenges to the strong ones. It reminds me of Churchill’s famous words: “If you’re going through hell, keep going.”

Well, that’s exactly what I’m doing.

If you know me well, you know I’m a deeply emotional person. You probably also know how many challenges I’ve faced, and you’ve likely said, “You’re such a strong person. I don’t know how you’ve been through X, Y, Z.” Maybe one day I’ll write a book or start my own reality TV show (watch out, Kardashians 😜), but for now, I need to channel my thoughts and feelings through writing. And Mama Delight feels like the perfect place for it.

After all, I started Mama Delight as an outlet for my motherhood journey — to share real mama stories, not the polished Instagram version, but the raw, honest, human one.

The past six months have been particularly challenging in my personal life. When the “big D” word starts being mentioned (and no, not that D word 😉), everything shifts. When you and your partner become so emotionally charged that you start mirroring each other — not always in the best ways — you’re forced to stop and ask: What am I meant to learn from this? Why am I going through this? Why now?

I’m learning the discipline of clear, calm communication. I’m learning to create mental boundaries and not absorb the emotional noise of others — whether it’s from your spouse, your family, your friends, or your colleagues.

I truly believe that for new energy to come in, the old must leave — even if that means complete destruction first. It’s terrifying, and yes, anxiety creeps in. But you still have to move forward, one step at a time. Rebuilding trust takes time. Healing takes time. And there are no set timelines for any of it.

Rome wasn’t built in a day — and right now, I’m still figuring out the blueprint.
But this time, we’re building a new Rome. The walls have been destroyed, and it’s clear this isn’t about turning a new page or starting a new chapter — it’s about opening an entirely new book. One written with truth, patience, and resilience at its core. We’re learning to let go of what no longer serves and to rebuild with steadier hands — working side by side, grounded in love and a deeper understanding of what truly matters. It’s slower, quieter work… but maybe that’s how the strongest foundations are built.

And as I rebuild, another chapter of my life has begun: stepping back into the world as a working mama. Getting back to work has been both empowering and overwhelming — finding that delicate balance between career and motherhood is a new kind of dance I am yet to learn. But no matter how full my days get, one thing will never change: Philip is always my number one priority. His health, happiness, and wellbeing come before everything else. I remind myself daily that I’m not just working for me — I’m working for us. And when I see his little smile it reminds me exactly why I’m doing it all.

So from here on, Mama Delight will include a new, more personal corner — a space I’m calling “Becoming Her: The Mama Chronicles.”
It’s where I’ll share my journal-like reflections — the unfiltered, emotional, behind-the-scenes stories of this mama’s journey. Because I know so many others are walking through similar storms, and if my words can help even one of them feel seen or understood, then it will all be worth it.